The sisters' accounts, shared in a recent interview with DJ Ollah, paint a stark picture of neglect, mistreatment, and emotional anguish that has left many in shock and sympathy.

A Household of Inequality

Sandra, the oldest child from Mtukudzi's marriage to Melody Murape, recounted some of the most harrowing experiences of her childhood. One of the most disturbing revelations was that she was often forced to share food with the family dog, Kwanai. "I would be told that I had to share the pot with the dog. 

We had a dog called Kwanai and while others were eating rice, I would be told that I would get my sadza from the same pot as Kwanai," she said, highlighting the stark contrast in treatment between her and her half-siblings, Sam and Samantha, who are Mtukudzi’s children with Daisy.

This was not an isolated incident; Sandra described a consistent pattern of mistreatment that made her feel unappreciated and unloved. 

She recalled being left behind when the rest of the family went on holidays and being given menial tasks while her half-siblings enjoyed privileges. "Even in the house, Sam and Samantha had their rooms that were well prepared but I shared one with the maid. It was really painful and this is not just about the bedroom. It felt that I wasn’t appreciated or loved like the other children," she lamented.

The Invisible Child

Selmor, who has been in the spotlight recently after breaking down during a festival to honor her late father, echoed her sister's sentiments. She remembered being consistently left out of family activities and holidays. "When I saw the flier for the festival, it was painful. At the same time, I thought this is what they do every day. They just do these things on their own. Even as kids, we were always left behind. They would leave home with Samantha and Sam and go on holiday and we would be told to stay and look after the home," Selmor said, reflecting on the deep-seated feelings of abandonment and exclusion.

A Father's Absence and a Step-Mother's Rule

Oliver Mtukudzi's frequent tours and performances often left him unaware of the mistreatment his daughters suffered. Sandra noted that her father seemed "defeated" by Daisy's actions, suggesting a complex and potentially controlling dynamic within the household. "I never complained to my friend but sometimes I would notice that he was defeated," Sandra said, indicating that even when her father was present, he may not have had the control or awareness to intervene effectively.

Public Reaction and Legacy

The revelations by Sandra and Selmor have sparked a mix of outrage and sympathy from the public. Fans of Oliver Mtukudzi, who was known for his unifying music and philanthropic efforts, are grappling with the contrast between his public image and the private struggles of his daughters.

The Mtukudzi family feud has raised questions about the management of the late musician's legacy and the impact of family dynamics on inheritance and public perception. As the family continues to navigate these challenges, it remains to be seen how they will reconcile their past and move forward in a way that honors Mtukudzi's memory.

Calls for Healing and Reconciliation

Despite the painful memories, both Sandra and Selmor have expressed a desire for reconciliation and healing. Their willingness to speak out and share their experiences is a step towards addressing the deep-seated issues within the family. As Sandra emphasized, "I am open for dialogue and anything that can unite us as a family. Family events should also be in harmony and unity. We are open for a mediator to come and unite this family".

"I Used to Share a Pot with the Dog": The Painful Childhood Experiences of Sandra and Selmor Mtukudzi

The stories of Sandra and Selmor Mtukudzi serve as a poignant reminder of the complexities and challenges that can exist within even the most seemingly harmonious families. As the public continues to grapple with these revelations, it is crucial to approach the situation with empathy and understanding.

The legacy of Oliver Mtukudzi, a man whose music brought joy and unity to countless people, now faces a new chapter—one marked by the painful truths of his family's past. However, in the words of his daughters, there is a glimmer of hope for healing and reconciliation. As we reflect on this story, we are reminded that even in the darkest of times, the path to unity and forgiveness is always possible.